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ugh, it’s MONDAY

Today is the last day of the St. Kitts and Nevis Carnival, also known as Sugar Mas. It is a national holiday and looks like fun.

Throat and Nasal Passages
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Dad was in the hospital and they asked us his blood type, but we couldn't remember and he didn't make it. As he died, he kept insisting for us to "be positive," but it's hard without him.

Books for kids…

"If God Loves Me, Why Can't I Get My Locker Open?" by Lorraine Peterson
"Llama Destroys The World" by Jonathan Stutzman
"I'd Really Like To Eat a Child" by Sylviane Donnio
"The Gas We Pass: The Story of Farts" by Shinta Cho
"Go the F**k to Sleep" by Adam Mansbach

Today is the birthday, in 1945, of Stephen Stills.

Posted by Tom in Humor, Music, sixties and seventies

MATRIX

Lauren Groff Reimagines a Medieval Feminist Hero in 'Matrix'

I recently finished reading Matrix by Lauren Groff. I loved it and immediately went out and reserved a couple of other books by the same author. Others liked it as well; it was a finalist for the National Book Award, named a Best Book of the Year by The New York Times, The Washington Post, TIME, NPR, The Financial Times, Good Housekeeping, Esquire, Vulture, Marie Claire, Vox, The Los Angeles Times, USA Today and more!

Loosely based on the life of the 12th century poet, Marie de France, Matrix is an inspiring novel that truly demonstrates the power women wield, regardless of the era. It has sisterhood, love, war, sex — and many graphic deaths, all entangled in a once-forgotten abbey in the English countryside.

The year is 1158. As a “bastardess sibling of the crown,” the orphaned Marie de France is, alas, no glittering jewel to set in a queen’s gilded court. “Three heads too tall,” a “great clumsy lunk” with a “giant bony body,” Groff’s Marie is frankly unmarriageable: too ugly and unwieldy a burden to place on any man. On the other hand, she is educated and, having been left to fend for herself since the age of 12, when her mother died, knows how to run an estate — and how different is that from a nunnery? As it happens, Eleanor has just such a place on her hands, a “dark and strange and piteous place, a place to inspire fear.”

Reluctant at first to assume her role as prioress to pious old women, 17-year-old Marie attempts to reverse her banishment by writing an extensive ode to Queen Eleanor in an attempt to win her favor and be asked back to court. (This is Groff’s only nod to the poet’s real life in the novel.) But Marie’s writing days are quickly replaced with a spiritual devotion to the women who she comes to care for.

Marie’s answer to her exile from court is to remain devoted to a vision that excludes both Adam and the serpent. Her decades-long care for and control of the women fate places in her hands will only harden her resolve to disobey what Eleanor presents as the basic ground rule between the sexes: the “laws of submission” that place women at the mercy of men.

Marie gradually transforms this collection of starving and sickly women into a powerful abbey hidden in an Arthurian forest.

She arrives as a child and grows into a formidable woman, with urges, desires, and issues like any other woman. Guided by visions she claims are from God, given to her to protect the women under her care, she also stirs trouble — because a woman like her should not have power.

Groff often conflates Marie’s desire for power with her desire to keep her charges safe: She publicly challenges political laws, social structures, and ecclesiastical mores, seemingly for her personal enjoyment and prosperity. Outside the abbey walls, crusades and political stratagems occupy her mind.

There are moments where we witness the growth of a woman in a religious institution and everything is sacred — at least for a moment. Then in quick succession, Groff reminds us that yes, these are women of God, but sometimes they’re just earthly women. Her allusions to female pleasure — such as masturbation and oral sex — are done as stealthily as her allusions to heinous actions such as rape, almost like a whisper that you might miss if you’re not paying attention. But there are instances where allusions are not enough, and she is graphic, leaving little to the imagination when discussing death and sickness.

It’s a wonderful story and Groff is not just a skilled writer, but an amazing one. It’s not a long book – about 250 pages in hardback and, once you get into it, you will be immersed. Go read this book, you will enjoy it.

Posted by Tom in Books, Literature

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Today is, of course, New Year’s Eve, the last day of 2021. But it’s also World Azerbaijanis Solidarity Day and a public holiday in Azerbaijan. This holiday is intended to highlight the unity and solidarity of Azerbaijanis all over the world, their respect for national and spiritual values, as well as belongingness to the historical homeland.

Celebrate Carefully!

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Sometimes we wish our pets could talk. What if they could text????

Mittens, please stay off my laptop.
Poor starving cat.
Dammit, Mittens!
Drama queen.

More here.

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Today is the birthday, in 1943, of Henry John Deutschendorf, better known as John Denver. Denver recorded and released approximately 300 songs, about 200 of which he composed. He had 33 albums and singles that were certified Gold and Platinum in the U.S by the RIAA with estimated sales of more than 33 million units. Here’s one of his most popular.

Posted by Tom in Humor, Music, sixties and seventies

looks a bit like THURSDAY

Today is Tamu Lhosar in Nepal and parts of India. The festival of Tamu Lhosar is marked as the New Year by the Gurung people to celebrate their unique cultural and traditional values. It marks the beginning of the Gurung New Year which falls on the 15th day of Pusa, according to Vikram Sambat and is observed on December 30th in the western calendar.

Find out what the sky has in store for your zodiac sign for the 2022!

manufactured in a facility that also processes…

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Lots of birthdays today. One of them is Del Shannon’s who was born on this day in 1934. He had this number one hit in 1961.

Posted by Tom in Humor, Music, sixties and seventies

Middle of the Week Day

Today is Independence Day (Mongolian: Монгол Улсын тусгаар тогтнол) in Mongolia. Also known as National Revolution of Freedom and Independence Day, this holiday commemorates Mongolia’s independence from China on this day in 1911.

Well I guess it all began when I started studying Egyptology. Yes, I thought it probably goes back to mummy issues...
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I have questions:

Is anything easier done than said?

Do websites in the U.K. use biscuits instead of cookies?

Is the S or the C silent in the word “scent”?

Can you yell “Movie!” in a crowded fire station?

Would you go to someone’s funeral who didn’t go to yours?

If Apple made a car, would it have Windows?

Why are Zoe and Zoey pronounced the same, but Joe and Joey aren’t?

…more to come.

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Today is the birthday, in 1946, of Marianne Faithfull, one-time girlfriend of Mick Jagger. She achieved popularity with this song, written by Jagger and Keith Richards.

Posted by Tom in Humor, Music, sixties and seventies